The male perspective on a happy ending massage. of Faye, I take a stab at conversation, asking the woman how long she's been giving massages. (One claims to have had sex with his masseuse, but I can't verify that.). Determined to find out if happy ending massages for women really exist, one woman explored New York City to get the best happy ending massage in town. And as Samantha learned in the now-notorious Sex and the City. "My guess is that she has a very strong sex drive which may not be getting fulfilled It's not like you can get a state sanctioned certification in happy ending massage. I think women have long been curious about happy ending massages but.